Tidewater Community College’s tagline, “From here, go anywhere” perfectly reflects the journey of Eli Gray—a determined and resilient student whose time at TCC has transformed his life and future. This May, Eli will graduate with an Associates of Science, General Studies. In the fall, he will transfer to the University of Mary Washington in Fredericksburg, Virginia, where he plans to double major in Psychology and Sociology with a minor in Social Justice.

His ultimate goal? To one day open a nonprofit that provides guidance, mentorship, and opportunities to those who need it the most.

But this vision wasn’t always clear. Before coming to TCC, Eli thought a four-year college path wasn’t for him. He noted that higher education wasn’t something he had planned for or necessarily even wanted due to his educational experience growing up.

“I had a really hard middle and high school experience,” Eli admitted.

In Fall 2022, Eli decided to enroll at TCC’s Virginia Beach campus to complete a one-year Fire Science program online and become a fire inspector. He was also working two jobs as a dishwasher and donut shop employee before and after his classes.

“After enrolling and being at TCC for a little bit, I started enjoying and succeeding for the first time, just in this little fire science class, and I thought that I could maybe try an in-person class,” Eli said.

Eli noted how he started to commit more to college and enjoy his time learning, eventually taking the step to turn into a full-time student. He recalls thinking to himself, “I can do more than just this one-year program. I think I’m capable.”

By Fall 2023, Eli found himself beginning to see college not just as a short-term plan but as a foundation for long-term growth. He was taking a full course load, including online and in-person classes to be on track to earning an associate degree. 

He also became deeply involved in student life. He joined the Psychology club Psi-Chi-Phi and was appointed to Old Dominion University’s inclusive Civic Scholars program—an experience that connected him with leaders and peers across Hampton Roads. Through this and other opportunities, he gained valuable experience with networking and civic engagement. Eli is also a recipient of the 2025 Community Engagement Award.

Eli emphasized how grateful he was to have found a community at TCC. He will be finishing up his community college journey alongside his two best friends: Hunter Randolph and Leah Foreman.

He credits much of his success to the people who supported him throughout his journey—from his professors to his classmates and friends, but especially his mother, for helping him stay grounded.

“There were a lot of people that helped me on my journey, for sure. But my mom was always there for everything, answering the phone when I was upset or happy. She was my greatest support.”

Now, Eli is preparing to take the stage as the 2025 Student Commencement Speaker at TCC’s graduation on May 12 at Chartway Arena.

“I am very honored to be chosen to do this. I can’t wait to represent everybody. This school has changed my life and the lives of so many others. I can’t think of a better way to close this and share it with my graduating class,” he said.

Looking ahead, Eli is excited about continuing his education at Mary Washington, where he will focus on the psychology and sociology programs. He plans to take advantage of the internships and research opportunities. 

He hopes to one day attend graduate school and work in juvenile detention centers. 

For students who might be where he once was—unsure, overwhelmed, or feeling like college isn’t for them—Eli offers a message of hope and persistence.

“I want people to know that no matter who you are, you can do it. You can achieve things, succeed, and go above and beyond, doing more than you ever thought you could do.”